Power skills | Confidence
You’d better believe it
Having self-confidence can be a major factor in career success, so it’s important to develop and improve it over time
Words Sophie Cross
Opportunities we grasp in life often don’t come down to our ability but what we believe we are capable of or deserve. Feeling uncertain about yourself can be a major impediment to your studies and career but, as with anything, you can improve your self-confidence. There are ways to address areas of concern and tools to help build belief and assurance.
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Nobody else can give you self-confidence; it’s something you need to develop. The first step is acknowledging that it’s something you want to work on and recognising the areas in which you’re lacking self-belief. Once you have done this, try opening up about how you feel to a trusted teacher or friend. Saying it out loud and getting some support is a good first step.
Remember, you are not alone. There are things that you take for granted as being easy but will fill other people with dread. Be kind to yourself and practise self-compassion - treating yourself as you would someone else who shared their lack of self-belief with you.
Think about which specific situations tend to challenge your confidence the most and where this lack of confidence could have come from. Understanding this could help you work out what strategies might be best for you.
TOP TIPS
Six strategies to build your confidence
TOP TIPS
Five self-confidence tips for specific situations
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Exams - analyse your past exam performance and ask yourself what worked for you when you were studying and on the day itself.
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Job interviews - employers are not looking for someone who has all the skills but one has the right attitude, is willing to learn, and is confident enough to give things a go and ask questions. Focus on acting confident even if you don’t feel it.
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Public speaking - think about your body language. Stand up tall, be open, speak slowly and don’t forget to breathe.
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When meeting new people – remember, everyone is in the same boat and that others are only worrying about how they are perceived. Instead of talking about yourself, ask questions and find out about other people.
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Advancing on your career path - find yourself role models to inspire you.
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You’d better believe it
Having self-confidence can be a major factor in career success, so it’s important to develop and improve it over time
Words Sophie Cross